I’ve been trying out a little trick that I learned from Shawn Blanc. Every night, I choose my clothes for the next morning.
This is no unique, innovative idea, of course; making sure that you have pressed shirts & pants is a night-before practice for many, and some parents encourage their school-aged kids to pre-choose clothes, as a time-saving trick for busy mornings (and to make sure dirty clothes are identified before drop-off!).
Shawn's explanation for trying this practice is twofold:
For one, it is a way to build personal integrity. To say that you’re going to do something, and then actually follow through with it, regularly, begins to tell your own self that you are trustworthy. You can begin to build momentum from the pride & confidence you have in yourself as being able to do what you set out to complete.
Secondly, your present self is making life easier for your future self. It sounds silly, and maybe it is! All I know is that nighttime me is not particularly taxed by picking out what I will wear the next day, but morning me is incredibly grateful to have a thought-out, assembled outfit ready to go without beginning the day with the litany of choice.
It doubles for me as a simple way to grab my clothes in the dark and get ready before everyone else in the house has woken up. I’m a morning person, and I’ve always liked being dressed for the day as opposed to wearing my pyjamas, so it works for me.
Weekends are a different story, but this has become my weekday routine. I think it may be a gateway into more tidiness, as well. I can see the effect creeping into my life elsewhere, too.
What do you think? Want to try it?
Six years ago, my family unknowingly set ourselves on a journey toward starting a children’s clothing company.
It didn’t start with a business plan, it started with a single choice — a simple “no”.
On April 25th, 2013, the four of us — me, my husband, & our two daughters — were sitting together at the table, eating lunch. The news was on, which, in hindsight, was really unusual; we are not typically TV watchers, especially during a mealtime. I don't remember why the TV was on, but I do remember getting out of my chair, picking up my daughter, and walking closer to the television.
I received a big shipment of blankets a few weeks ago, and on Instagram I posted this photo of me with the pallet of 16 large boxes towering over me.
Subsequently, I received several DM questions about when the new blankets would be added to the site. The answer is not now but also always — both are true!
This seemed like a good time to give you all a tour into our dignify back room to explain more of how we make this colorful business work.
I've joked for many years that I think of parenting as "a slow death to self".
The death to self part (or maybe, less dramatically, a minimizing of self) is obvious : as a parent, your own "needs" & desires shuffle down a little lower on the list of importance when you have a dependent. (With the notable exception of that oxygen mask on an airplane, where I'm told you're supposed to put yours on first!).
The "slow" part is maybe a bit more arguable... When a child arrives in a parent's life, things change pretty quickly! But, in my experience, it has overall been a slow process of giving myself up for others, with acute times of change that are particularly noticeable.