The idea of a "capsule wardrobe" has gained a ton of momentum over the last few years. This is the concept where you have a limited wardrobe of items that you really like instead of a closet full of clothes that you rarely wear. Some people have taken the idea further still by creating a personal "uniform" and only wearing the same thing every day. Famous examples of this are Steve Jobs, Mark Zuckerberg, and Barack Obama; I wrote about personal uniforms already over here.
On the extreme, uniform end of the life-simplification-spectrum, there are some people who eat the same meal (often lunch) every day. This article in The Atlantic explores some of these folks and the different reasons they have had for this streamlined habit — from simplicity, stress-reduction, time-saving, to just plain enjoyment.
Few of us will instate a personal uniform, but many more are eager to embrace a more minimal wardrobe overall. In the same way, few of us want to eat the same thing every, single day; but, do we have the same interest in a limited rotation of meals or ingredients?
For a majority of the world, eating the same thing every day (and the same thing throughout the day) doesn't have a fancy name; it's simply called: eating!
Rice & beans may be the daily diet for billions of people in hundreds of countries, but here, the attitude towards eating the same thing over and over is often viewed as an uninspired, character flaw.
As The Atlantic article explores, people who bring the same meal to work every day are good-naturedly teased — "What's for lunch today, Joe? [snicker, snicker]" — and mostly the response from others neutral. But, the scale would tip definitely more towards an eyebrow-raise rather than admiration or inspiration.
Personally, I find it really easy to wear only few articles of clothing; fashion is not an area in which I feel compelled to express myself. Maybe that's from wearing a school uniform for many years, or maybe it's my aversion to fast fashion (and the lack of funds that would allow me to keep up with trends with higher quality, better made clothing).
Food, on the other hand, is much more of a creative outlet for me. I love to cook, to experiment, to try new things, dabble with ingredients. When I had babies and my husband was a student, a friend of mine (in the same life-stage) shared her monthly meal plan with me. It was impressive... and oppressive! (to me, at least!). I later got a glimpse inside her fridge: where was the abundance of random half-full bottles (Asian dark sauces, curry pastes, various mustards)?
When she looks in my fridge, does she see overabundance & excess where I see creative juices flowing?
Are these one-and-the same? Is a "capsule diet" or "capsule menu" going to be the next KonMari-ish trend? Which one would be (or is) easier for you to be a minimalist: in clothes or in food? Weigh in below!
This is a motto I've been replaying lately in my mind.
For me, one of the *necessities* to sustain energy for this work is to embrace joy, celebration, & fun. But this year, those things have felt pretty elusive. The past 16 months have enriched the depth of my close friendships and have brought maturation & focus to my time; these have been invaluable gifts!
But... I feel like I need to learn all over again how to have fun!
Here are some of the ways I've been thinking about, or practicing, fun lately. I would also love to hear about how you find joy & energy to recharge for everything else that life brings at us!
Basha Boutique is the name of the organization in Bangladesh where all of our beautiful products are made.
Yes, *all* of our products, every item of kantha we sell. This was... ill-advised by our banker. But, a personal working relationship, excellent partnership, and the literal best quality products have kept us together for nearly 9 years! dignify is yoked to Basha, and we have zero regrets.
If you've been around dignify for a while, you've heard plenty about Basha and likely have a good familiarity with how they (and we) operate. But, if not, here is a bit more context!
I’ve written before about taking the time to think about our spending habits. We are in a particularly unique situation in this current moment; in March 2020, there was a dramatic interruption to our everyday spending and consumption habits!
Some patterns have remained interrupted over the year. Some rhythms are, or will be soon, returning to a closer resemblance to pre-covid. Regardless of our specific situation, interruptions make great opportunities to re-assess! Do my choices reflect my desires, my values, my priorities?