Someone thought of me. As I look back on my favorite gifts through the years, that's what made them so meaningful. Not what was spent, but the intention behind them.
We live in a culture that invites us to spend more, more, more. But most of us don't want impressive gifts or expensive ones. We want gifts that mean something.
Have you ever received a gift that made you light up? I'm guessing it was because you felt cared for, seen, thought of. That's what we're exploring here... how might we give gifts that create that kind of feeling.
Here are 3 ways to bring meaning to your gifts this year:
1. A Few Words Just for Them
I have a friend who writes a note with every gift. It always feels personal - like she stopped to think of me and what I needed to hear.
A handwritten note matters more than we realize. And it doesn't need to be long or perfectly written. Just honest and heartfelt. A few sentences showing you care.
If you're not sure where to start, focus on what you genuinely appreciate about the person. The more specific, the better.
Some prompts you can use:
- Something I admire about you is…
- I’ve been thinking about the way you…
- I hope this reminds you that you are…
At the end of the day, sincerity is the thing that means the most. Often the note is what gets kept long after the gift is used or passed along.
2. Taking a Little Time with the Wrapping
It doesn't need to be fancy. The gift wrapping I remember felt simple and lovely. What mattered was that it felt thoughtful.
A few easy ideas you may already have around the home:
- Use kraft paper, a recycled gift or brown paper bag, fabric or a scarf
- Keep tape and extras minimal.
- Tuck the note inside the wrapping rather than adding it at the end.
- Add a ribbon, twine or small natural touch if that's your style.
- Incorporate a black & white photo or handwrite their name on the outside of the note to keep the personal touch.
When wrapping feels intentional, it can make the gift feel even more special and change how it's received.
3. One Small, Thoughtful Addition
Adding something small alongside your main gift can make it feel extra special.
Consumable things or small thrifted finds are my favorite. They add warmth without breaking the bank.
Years ago, when I was moving to India, my friend Aimee gave me a small, beautiful teal-colored glass pitcher she'd found at a thrift store. At first, I wasn't sure why. When I read her handwritten note, it was clear how much love and thought she'd put into it and how it represented the season I was stepping into. I still have it, and I think of her every time I see it. It wasn't the expense - it was her thoughtfulness.
Some ideas:
- A loaf of bread, cookies, granola or homemade batch of vanilla.
- A jar of jam, honey, or tea you know they’ll use.
- A thrifted mug, bowl, or linen that already feels at home.
- A secondhand book or small object that fits the season they’re in.
Here's a couple DIY recipes I've used and can vouch for: vanilla extract, granola, chocolate chip cookies, no-knead homemade bread.
This is why I love giving kantha blankets—each one is truly one-of-a-kind, with its own story and the hands that stitched it. The vibrant colors and patterns. The texture of the hand-stitching. These are gorgeous, handmade gifts that will last for years.
Things ready to be eaten or that have already lived a life feel easier to receive.
Meaning doesn’t come from doing more. It comes from noticing.
Small details like these often last longer than the gift itself.
The gifts we remember aren't about perfection or expense. They're about presence, attention, and care. Whether it's a handwritten note, thoughtful wrapping, or choosing something that feels personal, meaning comes from noticing what matters to the person you're giving to.
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Which of these resonates with you?
How do you make gifts feel meaningful?
