At dignify, we’ve discovered that when someone buys one of our ethical goods, like a kantha blanket, they seem to love it more and more after they’ve purchased it. We think this delight is the satisfaction of money well spent: the joy of discovering that you’ve purchased something that was worth its value, and further, that it has impacted the world & people in it for good.
It would be excellent if all of the products I use, the clothes I wear, the gifts I buy, the food I eat, could be sourced thoughtfully, crafted with care, made of lasting quality, created by people who are treated well and thriving in their work. I wish it were so!
If this were my reality, I would never need to think about my purchases and the trail of my money. But, it certainly is not mine, and my sense is that it isn’t yours, either.
In small & steady ways, figuring it out as we go along.
“Put your money where your mouth is,” says the old cliché. Sounds easy! If you have unlimited resources of time & money. And if you never make compromises.
So let’s get real, because there are far too many tensions in life for it to be that easy. Instead, “Throw out the guilt trips, give up on the jargon, and look in the mirror.”* Or, rather, look in the wallet!
Our purchases are integral to our life – one of the most regular, persistent spheres of our influence. Let’s go forward together, exploring the tensions, trying to do a little bit better, be a little bit more thoughtful, & bring a little bit more flourishing to the world, one purchase at a time!
*A quote from Berlin Reed, "The Ethical Butcher",
a champion of thoughtfulness in eating
This week, I posted on my personal Facebook page about Amazon's Prime Day, with some stats that bothered me.
A thoughtful friend commented with honesty,
"Could you share some more of your insights about Amazon. I don’t disagree that their model is terrible but I also haven’t been convinced enough to forgo the crazy convenience of it.
Help convince me!"
Here is the response I posted.
Colleen sent in this message:
Hi, love the items and have purchased several.
Question: last week I had put a classic throw in my cart and then shopped for another and placed in my cart as well and when I went to complete the purchase, they were marked as sold and unavailable.
How does this work? Was extremely disappointed!
I completely understand — what a disappointment! Let's talk more about this...
(Photo courtesy of Friends of Basha)
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