As I began hearing and reading more about capsule wardrobes, another concept came up: not just wearing a limited range of clothing, but wearing the exact same thing every day.
I wore a uniform in high school, so for me, it wasn’t a huge leap to envision the advantages of this. Obviously, there is the mental barrier of back then, someone made me do this, and now people are choosing to? But, there was and always will be more ease and simplicity when the what-to-wear question is taken out of the equation.
I first read this article when it circled around on facebook; it’s now been shared over 120K times. Matilda Kahl, a woman art director at a large advertising agency in NYC, basically got tired of sweating over her sartorial choices in the morning ("Is this too formal? Is that too out there? Is this dress too short?"). To simplify her morning struggle, and even the playing field with her suit-wearing colleagues, she adopted a “work uniform”: a silk white shirt, black trousers, and a black leather rosette around her neck. She’s been wearing it now daily for about 4 years.
Photo: Business Insider
She likened the simplification to setting up a bill for online auto-pay – doesn’t it feel good to have one less thing to deal with every month?
When you put it that way, I can agree: one less thing to worry about! But, I admit, when I first heard the concept defended like this, I thought it was absolutely laughable. “Free up your mind,” they said, “you can save your focus and creativity for your work, or for more valuable pursuits!”
Yes, I am sure that not having to choose my clothes each day would free up a tiny part of my brain. Unfortunately, the rest of my brain is clogged up with other minor considerations like “how to raise 3 human beings to be kind, considerate, hard-working, grateful, and generous members of society.”
Let me tell you, my daily clothing choice is a drop. in. the. bucket, folks!
But, maybe Matilda is onto something? Have you ever tried this? Do you think it makes sense or would impact the effectiveness or freedom of your day? Or, do you love choosing your clothes and you would miss it? Weigh in with your comments below!
This week, I posted on my personal Facebook page about Amazon's Prime Day, with some stats that bothered me.
A thoughtful friend commented with honesty,
"Could you share some more of your insights about Amazon. I don’t disagree that their model is terrible but I also haven’t been convinced enough to forgo the crazy convenience of it.
Help convince me!"
Here is the response I posted.
Colleen sent in this message:
Hi, love the items and have purchased several.
Question: last week I had put a classic throw in my cart and then shopped for another and placed in my cart as well and when I went to complete the purchase, they were marked as sold and unavailable.
How does this work? Was extremely disappointed!
I completely understand — what a disappointment! Let's talk more about this...
(Photo courtesy of Friends of Basha)
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