Photo: Bethany Douglass
"The wand chooses the wizard... it's not always clear why."
My husband just finished re-reading the Harry Potter series and marveled again at how intricately the story is weaved from the first through the seventh book. From early on in dignify's life, we have referred often to this line ↑ from The Philosopher's Stone (Rowling's first book in the series).
You see, each time we receive a shipment of new kantha quilts, there are always a few that I pull out and think, Yikes! Nobody isever going to buy that. Then, I launch a collection of throws and undoubtedly, one of the blankets I deemed "unsellable" is among the first to go!
There are some general, governing style principles that we try to apply to which blankets come to us (and how they match the saris for us). It is a work in progress, but overall, we try to have one color on each side that matches. We limit brick red and olive colors (these are colors that feature in Bangladesh in abundance). Other countries in the world have different affinities for their Basha kantha: Scandinavian countries tend to want simple, plain patterns. English sellers want quieter colors. Australians will take anything! And in North America, it is a mix.
But, all of that to say, we get what we get (and we don't get upset, as the preschool saying goes!). Sometimes, I launch a collection and cross my fingers that I won't be looking at the same blankets in a year! And sometimes — often — a throw comes that breaks the "rules"; it is so extraordinary, beautiful, & unique that it exceeds any direction I could have given.
In any case, we've found that there truly is a person for every blanket, and a blanket for everyone. In the history of 5.5 years and 5,000 blankets, there have been very few — like, less than 10 — on which we pulled the plug. I don't believe in magic, so the blanket may not really choose the wizard person, but people do make great choices about their blankets.
Do you have a dignify kantha quilt? How did you choose it? Or, if someone else picked for you, how did they do? Share your stories below or email them to firstname.lastname@example.org
It feels so disappointing to me and, well, financially gross, when I’ve spent money on clothes that turn out to be a complete dud. The sweater that gets pilly and gnarly after a couple wearings; the jeans that distort as I wear them or rub down the knees in months.
Conversely, one of my great delights is enjoying clothes that are made well, fit nicely, and hold up because of good workmanship and materials.
But, here's the rub... good quality clothes, made from solid materials, constructed to last: they cost money!
I love to read, and I love to read memoirs. There are loads of lists out there of great memoirs, and, well… this is another one.
Some titles will be familiar & common, though I’ve left out some faves that I’ve already mentioned (many times) before — Born A Crime, The Glass Castle, Bossypants — in favor of other titles [though, truth to tell, I have also mentioned some of these before.]
I hope that you can find something to read over the holidays! Happy Reading!
I've said before that while I advocate for shopping thoughtfully & being slow... I love gifts! Actual, tangible, pull-the-wrapping-off gifts.
We want to make the gifts that we give worth it. Worth the money, the materials, the effort... So, how to choose a thoughtful gift that will be meaningful to the recipient?