Photo: Bethany Douglass
"The wand chooses the wizard... it's not always clear why."
My husband just finished re-reading the Harry Potter series and marveled again at how intricately the story is weaved from the first through the seventh book. From early on in dignify's life, we have referred often to this line ↑ from The Philosopher's Stone (Rowling's first book in the series).
You see, each time we receive a shipment of new kantha quilts, there are always a few that I pull out and think, Yikes! Nobody isever going to buy that. Then, I launch a collection of throws and undoubtedly, one of the blankets I deemed "unsellable" is among the first to go!
There are some general, governing style principles that we try to apply to which blankets come to us (and how they match the saris for us). It is a work in progress, but overall, we try to have one color on each side that matches. We limit brick red and olive colors (these are colors that feature in Bangladesh in abundance). Other countries in the world have different affinities for their Basha kantha: Scandinavian countries tend to want simple, plain patterns. English sellers want quieter colors. Australians will take anything! And in North America, it is a mix.
But, all of that to say, we get what we get (and we don't get upset, as the preschool saying goes!). Sometimes, I launch a collection and cross my fingers that I won't be looking at the same blankets in a year! And sometimes — often — a throw comes that breaks the "rules"; it is so extraordinary, beautiful, & unique that it exceeds any direction I could have given.
In any case, we've found that there truly is a person for every blanket, and a blanket for everyone. In the history of 5.5 years and 5,000 blankets, there have been very few — like, less than 10 — on which we pulled the plug. I don't believe in magic, so the blanket may not really choose the wizard person, but people do make great choices about their blankets.
Do you have a dignify kantha quilt? How did you choose it? Or, if someone else picked for you, how did they do? Share your stories below or email them to firstname.lastname@example.org
A friend recently asked on Facebook for “the most challenging and enlightening resource you have read/watched about the problem of racism in America”. This question received numerous responses within the day: half a dozen films, dozens of books, podcasts, courses, and other hubs of information resources (as well as the astute reply, “Conversation”, which is, of course, the most relational and human of “resources”).
I think that this experience was shared by most people in early June (as protests & concerns over racial injustice had reached a critical volume): so many resources, so much to learn.
But now, 2 months later… what have we done with the magnitude of worthy, fascinating, perspective-altering information & insights that have been brought to our attention?
And this it only in the area racial injustice. In other interests & concerns: How much do we know? How much have we learned & read & listened to already?
Approximately 25 years ago (in March 2020), we did a customer/reader survey. I asked what you like to read on the blog & one of the respondents suggested a post on "living generously". What a fabulous idea and perfect for this time in history!
[The title of this post implies some kind of authority or expertise — ha! Nope, no experts here... just some thoughts on generosity from a fellow human, trying to make my way!]
A few weeks ago, I bumped into another grade 1 parent at the park, an acquaintance I knew from school events. As we chatted about our strange time since mid-March (working from home; restless but resilient kids; he hadn’t stepped foot in a store for 3 months...), he made an interesting remark:
We’ve looked at our bank account at the end of each month and thought, “what were we spending all that money on?!”